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Five years without Sophia in various media

Amsterdam, 29 October, 2020 How we wished yesterday would have been a perfectly ordinary day. A normal day, with Sophia coming home from a day at the hospital, filled with animated stories. A normal day when our children’s most pressing question would be: ‘What’s for dinner?’ A normal day when we, a family of five, would eat dinner as a complete family. A normal day when we would discuss our day, the news, and other things on our minds. But it wasn’t a perfectly ordinary day. We don’t have such days anymore and we can’t take anything for granted...

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The fight continues

With the President of Uganda, Yoweri Museveni, and Deputy Ambassador of The Netherlands, Joris van Bommel On April 28 it was four and a half years ago that Sophia disappeared and a bomb exploded in our lives. We are still sitting amidst the rubble. No, it does not get better, and no, there is nothing to process or to accept. Yes, we maintain hope and do what we can to find the truth about what happened to Sophia and where she is. It is a fight, in which we have important people on our side, but also those whom...

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Sophia is 26 today

Today it is 26 years ago that Sophia was born. A beautiful child that came into this world with a head full of dark hair en big dark eyes that were wide open. The hair did not stay dark but the eyes stayed wide open, literally and figuratively. This 7th day of December has been a day full of joy for twenty two times. A day of celebration, gifts, a table full of friends, laughter. For the fifth time now it is a day of sadness, despair, pain, uncertainty and also fear. What happened to Sophia? Will the day...

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Four years without Sophia

October 28, 2019, marks four years without Sophia. Our lovely, smart, strong-willed, lively, cheerful, ambitious and beautiful daughter and sister. It is unreal, incomprehensible, unacceptable and unbearable. It is said that time heals all wounds. This is not true, not here, not for us. On the contrary, our wound only seems to hurt more, as time passes. And how else could it be with this deep wound caused by Sophia’s disappearance? A disappearance shrouded in mystery and surrounded by miles of question marks. Four years of despair, fear and insecurity about what could have happened to Sophia. Four years of struggle...

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Sophia’s disappearance on TV in Uganda

  On July 5 I returned home from my tenth journey to Uganda. As with each of my journeys, new contacts were made, including with Ugandan media. There was an extensive interview with the ‘Ugandan Oprah’ Karitas Karisimbi. She has a popular talkshow ‘The Chat Room’ which is aired every Sunday at 8 pm, followed by the 9 o’clock news. The interview was broadcast on June 30. I have done my utmost, again, to get people out of the tunnel vision that was created practically immediately after Sophia’s disappearance. A tunnel that only leads to ‘fatal accident’. Quickly jumping to...

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